Understanding Trauma & PTSD — And How Healing Happens

Trauma affects far more than the moment something painful occurred. It can shape how you think, how you feel in your body, how you relate to others, and how you show up in your daily life. Many people who carry trauma don’t realize that their struggles today are rooted in overwhelming experiences that were too much, too fast, or too soon for the nervous system to handle.

The good news is that trauma is treatable. With the right support, the brain and body can heal. You don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode.

What Is Trauma?

Trauma is not defined by the event itself, but by how your nervous system experienced the event. When something feels threatening, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming, the body may shift into survival responses such as fight, flight, freeze, or collapse. If the nervous system is unable to return to safety afterward, the overwhelming experience becomes “stuck,” leading to ongoing symptoms long after the event has passed.

Trauma can come from:

Emotional, physical, or sexual abuse

Childhood neglect or instability

Medical trauma or chronic illness Loss, grief, or sudden life changes

Military experiences

Accidents or natural disasters

Relationship or attachment wounds

Chronic stress or repeated micro-traumas

You do not have to justify whether your trauma “counts.” If it impacted you, it matters.

What Is PTSD?

Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) occurs when trauma symptoms persist and begin interfering with daily functioning, relationships, work, or your overall sense of wellbeing. PTSD can develop from a single event or from long-term or repeated experiences (sometimes called complex trauma). PTSD is not a sign of weakness—it’s a sign that your nervous system has been doing its best to protect you.

Common Symptoms of Trauma & PTSD

Trauma affects the mind, emotions, and body. You may experience:

Emotional & Psychological Symptoms

Anxiety, fear, or a sense of danger even when you’re safe

Depression or hopelessness

Difficulty feeling joy or connection

Irritability, anger, or emotional overwhelm Intrusive memories, flashbacks, or nightmares

Physical & Somatic Symptoms

Chronic tension or pain Fatigue or sleep disruption

Startle response or feeling on edge

Numbness or disconnection from your body

Digestive issues or other unexplained symptoms

Cognitive & Behavioral Symptoms

Difficulty concentrating or memory issues

Avoidance of reminders of the trauma

Feeling detached from others

Overworking, people-pleasing, or shutting down

Trouble trusting yourself or others

These symptoms are not personality flaws—they are the body’s way of trying to keep you safe.

How Trauma Is Treated: EMDR & Trauma-Informed Therapy

Healing trauma requires therapies that address the root of the pain—not just the surface-level symptoms. As a licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma, I use evidence-based, mind-body approaches that help the nervous system resolve what it couldn’t process in the past.

EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)

EMDR is one of the most effective and extensively researched treatments for trauma and PTSD. It helps the brain reprocess disturbing memories so they no longer trigger the same emotional or physical reactions.

EMDR works by:

Reducing the emotional intensity of traumatic memories

Strengthening adaptive, positive beliefs

Reconnecting you with a sense of safety and empowerment

Allowing memories to be experienced without overwhelm

During EMDR, you are not asked to relive the trauma in detail. Instead, you guided gently through processing at a pace that feels safe and grounded.

EMDR is a powerful approach for:

PTSD Childhood trauma

Abuse and neglect

First-responder and military trauma

Medical trauma Anxiety, panic, and grief

Phobias and performance issues

Other Trauma-Informed Therapies I Use:

While EMDR is foundational, trauma is multi-layered. I integrate additional approaches tailored to your needs, including:

Polyvagal-Informed Therapy

Helps regulate the nervous system, increase feelings of safety, and develop greater emotional resilience.

Somatic & Mind-Body Techniques

Support the release of stored tension and deepen your connection with your body.

Cognitive Behavioral & Attachment-Based Approaches

Address the beliefs, relational patterns, and self-perceptions shaped by trauma.

Parts Work & Inner Child Healing

Gently works with protective parts of you that formed during difficult experiences.

Strength-Based Relational Therapy

Builds safety through a grounded, supportive therapeutic relationship—essential for trauma healing.

Benefits of Trauma Therapy

Trauma therapy is not about “forgetting” the past—it’s about reclaiming your life from it. Clients often experience:

Greater sense of calm and safety

Increased capacity to handle stress

Improved sleep and energy

Reduction in triggers, flashbacks, and intrusive thoughts

Healthier boundaries and relationships

More confidence and trust in themselves

Feeling connected to purpose, joy, and identity again

You deserve a life that feels grounded, steady, and fully your own.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

If you’re ready to move out of survival mode and toward healing, I’m here to help. Trauma does not define you—your capacity to grow and recover is far stronger than you may realize.

When you’re ready, we can take the next step together.